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We use language to cast casual but culturally significant aspersions towards men all the time, it just doesn't tend to relate to quantity of sexual partners. Think about words like "wet", "weak", "drippy" and "sissy" or the catch-all emotion-stiffling command, "man-up". Think about slang terms like "pussy whipped" and the casual expressions we use to inadvertently condone and dismiss girl-on-guy abuse in relationships which I've written about for Telegraph Men before. Whilst a woman might feel it's difficult for her in the male-dominated environment of politics or the boardroom, a man will be mocked, derided and even suspected if he makes the decision to be a stay-at-home father.

Is there a male equivalent to calling a woman a 'slut'?

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Ask them, why do you think she does that? What do you think is going on with her? This is important because first, it can engender compassion for the person. Second, it can make them think twice about their own choices and motivation. Ask them, what does calling her a slut do for you? Does it make you feel better than her? Does it make you feel in charge of your own desires? Does it lift you up? Ask them, if she were a guy, would they being saying that? Because the answer, whether they admit it or not, is No. And we need to point out that dichotomy. Ask them how they would feel if they heard people saying that about a sister or a cousin?

When we allow, or even worse, encourage our kids to talk like this, we are permitting them to perpetuate the sexist attitudes we all grew up with.