Dating A Stripper What Everyone Says

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They're regular people, just employed in an adult business. If I believed a stripper was honest and really into me, I'd date her. Dating a stripper what everyone says me assure you, there's nothing regular about strippers AfterGlow Most regular people would never consider working in an Femdom slutwife business. I know alot of people who think drugs users are not regular people. It's a matter of opinion. Theres also no good reason that junkies should have viruses more because they dont have to share needles. In fact, a lot of sex workers are probably more safe than your average person from what I can tell.

Their livelihood relies on sex so why screw it up with an STD or pregnancy? Most of them were perfectly ordinary girls doing up to 20 strips a night. Virtually none of them were hooking. Just treat her nice and make her feel safe when she's with you. Yes, MANY strippers come from some fucked up backgrounds, but that's why they become strippers instead of secretaries or cooks or clerical workers or doctors or anything elseNOT the other way around. And it's MANY, not all. Some of the most wonderful people I have ever met have been strippers. Lots of them are women trying like hell to get out of the goddamn ghetto because they have no other opportunities.

And you'd be a bit fucking cranky at the world too if the vast majority of the people you came across at work every day treated you like shit. I stripped for the better part of 5 years while getting through college, and I came out of it with a great degree at the honors level from a great university, which has gotten me a fantastic job. I currently have a boyfriend whom I love and he loves me back, and our relationship is not dysfunctional - in fact, he's the best person I've probably ever had in my life, and we both respect the fact that we've been shit on by our respective exes to a ridiculous degree, so our relationship is very strong because we understand how vulnerable the other is and treat the situation with complete compassion and respect.

Some people are bad, some people are good. When you date people, you have to assess them for who they are as people, not for what they do or where they live or how they dress or how much money they have. That works the same for everyone, everywhere. Treat others with respect, and accept nothing but respect from others, and you'll come out ahead no matter what. I am sick to death of hearing about how everyone "knows" how "all [insert type of person here] act [negative stereotype]". I'm not saying that if you are a stripper you will do sex for pay or that all of them do this but it is something that does happen with strippers and I have friends who did strip and they told me how they or their stripper co-workers were into doing sex for pay while stripping.

I have straight male friends who are in relationships with women or some who are married and their GFs and wives are fine with them going to strip clubs but they've told me how female strippers would come up to them and tell them how if they paid for it they could easily sleep with one of them.

Pros and Cons of dating a stripper

It's Skater slut a huge jump or a woman to be a stripper and then wind up being a prostitute on the side. My female friends told me how lots of men would want more than just a lapdance or to see them dance on stage and they would accept expensive gifts from men for sex and even men who were their regulars at the club would start to want more than just a dance. Then there was the issue of seeing other women who were doing sex for pay and stripping rake in more cash and the jealousy and catfights that can happen because of that, or how other strippers will tell people to avoid a certain girl.

I'm a gay man and I've never dated a female stripper or had sex with Dating a stripper what everyone says woman. I wouldn't date a male stripper since when I've seen them at bars and clubs they're very narcissistic, and they just want your money. Most men into stripping are not my type at all since they have completely shaved and waxed their bodies and have fake tans. I wasnt really dating her, at least not officially, but we were hooking up pretty regular for about months. I really liked hanging out with her, she was fun to be around, but man, whoever said that all their gf talked about was the club I can totally relate. Id just tune out when she started doing that.

Ended when she went to dallas to be a lighting tech for a bunch of the concerts out there. Single mom working towards an engineering degree now. I was a stripper for 13 years and I don't regret it all. People can makes lots of judgments but I never prostituted myself out, even though I knew quite a few girls who did. I have good friends now that are hookers, but because that is their chosen career path now doesn't make them any less human. And there are crazy people anywhere, whether it is in a strip club or even in your classroom. I'm seriously offended by the STD comment, btw Monkeybizness I think I have a little experience to chime in here also I dated one for about 2 years, for 1 year of this she was working as a stripper.

Then I married her. Her body screamed "fuck me" Can you imagine, short small, thin, cute face but perfectly contortioned silicone to which you couldn't even tell she had implants, you just thought god has blessed her with the best breasts ever. It was only after about 1 month of sleeping with her that I realised she had implants after I saw the small scars at the bottom of her breasts. Maybe I was stupid but they were that good that you couldn't tell they were silicone. To see her once a week or once a fortnight like it was in the early stages was fantastic, never had better sex in my life.

If you could imagine dating a nurse or a mature age university student or something you could expect some peace and quiet in your life, but dating a stripper while extremely fun and sometimes extremely sexually satisfying, I just don't see how you can have a "normal" life per say even after they have finished stripping unless they have a big personality change within themselves. Believe it or not, some of them are actually in school and don't have plans of stripping forever. Stripping is what some of them do to pay for college.

You can't trust them: Strippers are some of the best actresses in the world, not only to the customers, but also to the people they are actually dating. If she tells you she's not fucking anyone for money, you better do your research to make sure that's true. They give their numbers out to a lot of customers, so trust will obviously be an issue. Strippers have a lot of issues, mental issues, family issues, physiological issues. Any kind of issue you name it. Ultimately it's all the issues that makes me end the relationship with the stripper. Most strippers enjoy their drugs, enough said.

Most strippers don't really have a plan for ahat future. When you ask them, they'll say they'll strip until evdryone can't strip anymore. Sure they're making good money now, but they've got to realize they can't do it forever. You can't retire at 65 stripping like a normal career. Most of them have no goals or plans of what they'll be doing in the future. You can't tell everyone you're dating a stripper, that won't be accepted in some instances.